Stop worrying about pleasing others

 Most of the time we got fail in something not because we stay ourself because we couldn't able to be ourself on that particular moment. let's suppose If you got a job, and it's your first day at some organization then one of your colleague would come to you, and starts a casual conversation where he asked you to be available after work because he was just planing for a small party however you are not in the mood to attend anything. You just wanted to go home after work, but still you said yes even though you are not interested that means you are saying yes for pleasing the other person by sacrificing your peace, so why we do that saying yes although we don't want to because we think by doing that everyone will start liking us, but it's a myth which is never going to happen doesn't matter how good you are, but there will be always someone who will dislike you, and it doesn't proof that's your fault. Actually North Pole and South Pole of a magnet never clings with each other. Similarly everyone is different, and they have their own thought process, so remember we are not born to impress others we are born to express ourselves. If a person doesn't like apple that doesn't mean apple is bad, or good, so be yourself because you are unique.